- After we have been married for two years, what do you envision me doing with my life,
what do you see me doing day to day?
- Who is the most important person in your life and who is the second most import?
- After we have been married, what do you envision about yourself concerning your job
and career?
- What are your thoughts about visiting my parents? How often should we do this?
- What values do you want to bring from your family into our marriage?
- How are we going to divide up the household chores?
- What are your expectations about how we will spend our free time?
- What should our financial goals to be?
- Are you a saver or spender when it comes to money? Do you want to have a budget?
- Should we have a joint checking account or separate accounts or both?
- Who is going to be responsible for making sure that bills are paid on time?
- Do you believe we will need to consult with one another before spending money?
- Do you consider going to the movies and having a vacation every year a necessity
or a luxury?
- Do you want to have children? If we decide we do, how many children do you want to
have? How long should we be married before having children?
- What kind of parent do you think you will be? What is your parenting philosophy?
Will one of us stay home after we have children?
- What type of birth control should we use if we want to postpone or prevent parenthood?
- How do you feel about adoption?
- What part does religion play in your life? How will your spiritual needs affect our
marriage and family?
- What are your expectations of our sexual relationship?
- Do you believe that we should be doing everything together? Can we each pursue our
own interests? Do you need time alone? How would you feel if I want a night out with
my friends now and then?
- How will we make sure we have quality time together?
- How will we make decisions together?